Throw in a picture of you dressed nicely at a rooftop bar. If you're lucky enough to be a guy in his early 20s, good news – you can skip the suit shot – it might actually hurt your chances by making you seem too serious or even uptight.
But you can convey the same vibe by choosing a picture of you at a nice club, restaurant, or other “luxurious” surroundings. You don’t want to look like you’re bragging, and survey data indicates that 81% of singles want to see casual photos showing your everyday life. Everyone has hobbies, so include a picture of you doing something you enjoy. But when you're choosing a photo, keep a sharp eye on the surroundings.
Whether or not you hire a photographer or enlist the help of friends or family, you'll definitely want to include at least one full body shot.
And this almost goes without saying, but make sure you’re the hottest guy in the frame of any photo you choose. When a woman looks at your photos, she's going to imagine herself in the lifestyle the photo conveys.
This is why unique travel photos are so successful.
If she has a bad impression of you from the start, she's not clicking on your profile.
And if you're thinking about skipping photos altogether, consider what Steven D. Dubner wrote in their book “Freakonomics”: A low-income, poorly-educated, unhappily employed, not very attractive slightly overweight and balding man who posts his photo stands a better chance at gleaning some emails than a man who says he makes 0,000 a year and is deadly handsome but doesn't post a photo.
But that being said, make sure your everyday life intrigues her. Riding a motorcycle, playing hockey, going for a hike – this is the proverbial “action” shot. No matter how hot you are, if you're posing on your motorcycle with an “I'm so awesome, check me out” smirk on your face, your inbox isn't going to get the action it deserves. If you enjoy cooking, that's an interesting thing to showcase – unless the kitchen in the background is a disaster area.
Ride your motorcycle and have a friend take some shots “in action.”Every photo should showcase your alpha side – “manly” men build things. (I guarantee she'll look at that mess and picture herself having to clean it up – not hot).Another great photo to have in your bag is one of you looking away from the camera.When you have a variety of poses in your lineup, it's more visually interesting.Photos are essential to your online dating success.Studies have shown that women take about 1/10th of a second to form an impression of someone in a photograph.If you still need more proof, try posting a profile on Match without a photo – a graphic quickly informs you that profiles with photos draw 15 times more interest. To answer this question, let's think for a moment about what the images represent.