Remember, just because someone has different interests than you and/or isn’t your typical “type” doesn’t mean that you should automatically write him or her off.After all, while it’s imperative that you don’t settle, it’s equally imperative that you give someone else a chance—just as you’d hope others would do for you in return.So rather than rushing the process and selecting a partner who doesn’t meet all of your needs and criteria, it’s in your best interest to put in the time it takes to date more people and up your chances of finding the one.
And speaking of setting your own pace, it’s important that you take some of the stress off of yourself and recognize that finding that perfect person won’t necessarily happen overnight.
After all, if you put pressure on yourself to just settle down already, you’re more likely to put yourself in a position where you have to settle for less.
Like our other courses (The Rules Dating Coach course, Rules School, The Confidence Course and The Marriage Course), The Rules for Everyone consists of 10 interactive online lessons and two hours of free consultation time. Our NYC seminar was such a success that we are coming baaaaaaack, so pack your bathing suit and sunglasses! ) consultation December 3 and 4, e-mail us at [email protected]! Check us out, like and comment, and also e-mail us any pics or text convos you’ve got for the following topics: Makeover Tip Monday, Textsfrom Your Ex Tuesday, What’s Goingon Wednesday, Throw Back Thursday, Flowersfor Friday, Success Story Saturday, and Celebrity Sunday!
Our next seminar will be in sunny Miami, Florida on Monday, December 4 from 6-8 pm. Don’t forget to follow us on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram! Unlike other books and philosophies that preach “do whatever you want” and “anything goes,” The Rules offers a concrete set of do’s and don’ts so you can actually land the guy of your dreams.
For instance, the next time you go out on a date, why not meet at a bar you’ve wanted to check out, a favorite coffee shop or even at an arcade or bowling alley?
Not only are you putting yourself in a better position to have a good time right off the bat, but even if you don’t hit it off with this person, you’ll still get something out of the date that you enjoyed.If you feel as though you’re never going to meet someone of quality and that every date you go on is going to be a disaster, these negative expectations will likely become self-fulfilling prophecies.After all, your pessimistic energy will be palpable to the people around you while simultaneously affecting your behavior in general.The 2-hour-plus seminar consists of tips for texting and Facebook, dating after divorce, makeovers, success stories, Rules and non-Rules celebrity relationships, Q&A, and much more.Listen on your i Phone while you drive or work out!So whether you sign up for a different dating app, ask to be fixed up and/or join a singles walking group, you’re taking strides toward making a real effort to meet others.