She professed to want marriage and kids, desperately.So why did she waste precious time with Adam, a married father of two who never had any real intention of leaving his wife?If you want to contribute to the discussion, then do it. Bachelor is an idiot, and should be treated as such. I will have you know that I took Psychology 101 in 9th grade before I dropped out of school.
The woman who wrote this article doesn't seem very bright or very well informed, despite her doctorate.The article is far too simplistic and does not seem to challenge the culture at all. Maybe the reason why you're upset with it, is that it doesn't paint these people in too good of a light.Having sex in the married couple’s bed, for example, becomes a daring thrill, full of lust and passion, in a way not possible otherwise. The need to be secretive, sneak around undiscovered, grabbing quick sexual encounters on the fly, can be a huge turn-on in comparison to a dinner date with a single man who calls on Wednesday night for Friday. The logic goes something like this: if he has a wife at home and is cheating with me, I know he’s not cheating on me.Especially for rule-breakers, it’s just more fun being naughty. And the sex is great because it’s new, adventurous, no strings attached, etc..Anon - If you knew this Martian Bachelor and the history of their posts on this site, you would see that either 1) they are just posting to garner attention by being sarcastic or stupid, or 2) they really are stupid and doing it to be funny. ) You are absolutely correct and no, I am not familiar with that individual or his previous posts. Keep the thread going and always ask the question, no matter what it is. did you just refer to yourself as a "victim" your an adulterer and in the eyes of god that's just wrong and if you do have children and you did end up getting divorced then you cheated those kids on having both there mom and dad under the same roof and god knows what other problems this will lead to for them in the future. I don't think it is realistic to expect life-long marriages to work, let alone remain monogamous. What about the woman who marries an alcoholic because she likes to play the rescuer?
It is a fine line between sarcasm and stupidity, and Bachelor straddles it. What if hubby sobers up and no longer can live with her dynamic?It's not like these adults get into these side relationships without any negative impact on their kids or spouse. You're basically saying that just because you're in an unhappy marriage, it's okay to be a liar, cheater and neglectful of the family.Regardless of whatever little harm you may think this has, I've yet to see a happy family, once the truth comes out. What if both sets of spouses have an agreement that their marriages are "open" - in other words, they are permitted to have intimate relationships outside of the marriage?I would place as much blame on the woman poacher since it takes both sides to get entangled.As a "victim" of two female poachers, I know I did wrong, but they were extremely aggressive and were to blame for what happened as well.And when they first met, was she really scanning the room for tall, dark, and handsome, or was she actually looking for married with romance sans responsibility?