As for clothing, Stevens suggests dressing to your chosen “category.” If you’re the girl-next-door type, dress like it.
To illustrate her point, Stevens details that she and her fans will have “date nights,” where they dress up and listen to music together.
Then, as the date carries on, they dig deeper and chat about what’s going on in each other’s lives.
It’s important to genuinely get to know the other person if authenticity is a key factor in your exploits.
If sex is on the schedule, it’ll happen, but getting familiar with each other on a deep level makes the experience even more genuine.
That means having a webcam (duh), a mic (double duh) and Skype, which is free to download.
While Stevens has her own software for webcamming, she agrees that Skype is the fittest program for one-on-one webcam fun.
While webcam sex can be incredibly fulfilling, it’s not worth ruining your reputation or having nude photos of yourself posted online against your will.
Before you broadcast, check out what you look like from the camera’s lense.
Instead, tell them how awesome the session was and that you’d like to do it again, if that’s the case.
You’ll seem more genuine and less like you’re using the person to get your rocks off (even if you are).
These simple things are the best way to ensure you’re looking your best without having to do much at all.