Subject: Inside the mind of a Cakeman (married lover/cheating husband) You took interview of a Mistress/ Other woman "Inside the Mind of a Mistress" . I don't understand why it's so hard to just keep a commitment. Can't people wait 5 years if it means sticking to your commitment? Life time commitments and working at a relationship are going the way of the dinosaur. There is an excellent book out by Dan Ariely, Predictably Irrational and in one it's chapters it describes a study that he did that shows how dramatically your decision making is affected when you are aroused. That the wife has not to face questions of her neighbors?
I also read hundred articles about mistress and other woman. Moreover, what is it with people who want to have their cake, etc, etc? The bottom line here is a relationship of infidelity based upon deceit and lying, hardly the foundation for starting a healthy relationship with someone new. I would like to ask your opinion of a married man who is only interested in his wives girlfriends. That the children has not to be asked in the school by their classmates and friends? Why should only the mistress/other woman be exposed and being asked always? A mistress also is a daughter of someone, a sister, she also belongs to a family.
I suspect you're calming personal fears, or perhaps appealing to a bruised demographic. It made my break up a piece of cake when I objectively read each point! He finally ended up marrying the last woman he cheated with. The problem is there is no Loyalty in the world left or almost none. I think it is laziness to keep an affair going whilst still married. While the commentor above, David Kaplan, does rightly point out that sometimes a cheater or cheaters wind up together long term or even married.
As a request I would plead you to write something on Indian Arranged marriages!!! I was busy with audits & traveling but finally checked email.
You took interview of a Mistress/ Other woman "Inside the Mind of a Mistress" . He had emailed me several times asking to bring samples by, and then finally lunch.
Now this man is telling me that he is going through a divorce this whole time & then come to find out he has cheated the entire marriage and his relationships last anywhere from one to thre of four years with women & that he just never talks to them again if they get too demanding.
I was thinking to myself I just want to have a good time and I am very lonely...
A couple of months later he asked me if I would spend the night with him in a hotel for his birthday... but I have a teenager at home & I was not sure that I wanted him in my home yet.
This was a highly pressured, sweep me off my feet kind of whirwind romance - he offered everything in the world...He tried to sell me products for our school & asked for my email.I gave him an email address that I rarley check since I am used to people trying to sell schools on their products.In fact, two friends,experiencing his disrespectful comments phoned one of the wives mutual friends, to ask if she was experiencing what they were. She then phoned him and told him that the wives two friends had called and were starting trouble! The author has opened my eyes to completely new aspect of such pathetic and dead-end relationships..... He tried to sell me products for our school & asked for my email.In fact, they weren't they were defending the wife and saying he was asking them to show him their breast. So the two friends are distancing himself and now wondering if him and the friend they called are in fact having a secret affair. you might as well have protected a lot of ppl from making such a hideous mistake. I gave him an email address that I rarley check since I am used to people trying to sell schools on their products.free products for my school, trips, spending money, traveling... I was married for 20 years & as a single mother, now divorced my lifestyle was drastically altered (as my ex husband took all of our money & left the state & gave up custody of our children to be with his former fiance.